
It's Memorial Day - a day we tend to associate with three-day weekends and picnics in the park. But I would like to say just a little about what Memorial Day was created for: to honor the men and women who gave their lives serving their country. (This is going to be sappier than things I normally write, but though I have my problems with the state of our nation, I still think it is a great one.)
Though we have fought many wars, some necessary and some rather foolish, I tend to associate the idea of war and this holiday with World War II. I don't really know why I do - it's always been one of my favorite periods in history to study. It probably helped that my grandmother told me so many stories of when she was young, and both my grandfathers served in it.
My mom's dad, my Papa, was an airplane mechanic in the Pacific. That's really all I know about his time in the service. He never talked about it; we never asked. I kind of wish we had. I wish I could write his story here, but I can't. He was always a fairly quiet, reserved, humble man. My sister has a picture of him in his uniform - he looked so young. He would've been around 30 at the time he served, so he wasn't as young as some. I think he must've been proud of his service and of his country. I remember we gave him a copy of "The Greatest Generation." And if he was any example, I think that title is just right.
My dad's dad ("Big Daddy" to me) was a tailgunner in the European theatre. It's funny: he died when I was just a baby, but I know so much more about his time in the war. I'm a little fuzzy on details know, but I know we have a box full of letters and memorabilia and a list of missions he flew. He actually flew cover for the D-Day invasion, as I recall. It's a miracle he lived - tailgunners didn't have a very long life expectancy. Actually, I don't think he was ever injured either. He had medals, but I don't recall seeing a purple heart.
He was based in England. I forget how many missions he flew, but I want to say it was more than the required amount. I should look at all that stuff again, just so I can get all the details, or at least as many as we have. One of the things I do remember is the piece of flack (the stuff they used to shoot at planes) that he brought back. Amazing. We have his uniform, and pictures of him in it. He would've been younger than Papa, somewhere in his 20s. I wish I could've asked him about it too - I can't even begin to imagine what it must've been like sitting in that plane, high up in the sky, cold, trying to shoot at enemy planes before they could shoot you, most likely praying you wouldn't be killed. I don't think we can even begin to imagine the courage and sacrifice it took for those boys (because that's what most of them were) to do what they did.
I've been watching WWII movies all day - the history channel has been showing a marathon of "Band of Brothers," which is really very good if you haven't seen it. But watching that, seeing what they went through... how did they do it? Where did they get the courage to face such a formidable enemy? How do you keep going when there are bullets flying all around you? While your friends are being shot? I don't know how they did, but they did, and they did it willing. And for that, we owe an entire generation and enormous debt of gratitude. They paid such a heavy, heavy price to ensure the freedom of so many people.
And that's what it says on the WWII memorial in Washington, D.C.: "Here We Mark the Price of Freedom." If you've never seen it, you should. I've visited twice now. It always makes me cry. I can't even really do it justice, so I'm putting up some pictures I took.

This isn't written or organized as well as I would like it to be, it's more or less stream-of-consciousness. But I think it's so important to remember just how many men have given their lives in service to their country. In WWII, and every war. In this war we are fighting in Iraq - a war, as I'm sure everyone does in every war, I pray will have an end soon. It breaks my heart whenever I see the names and pictures of the young men who have died over there at the end of "The Newshour with Jim Lehrer." But I'm glad they put them up. I'm glad they make us remember who is out there trying to keep us safe. And though I don't agree with the administration going over there, I am grateful to the men and women who in every branch of the United States Military.
So just remember, when you're out there in the park, or cooking out, or doing work like I will be... remember why you have this day off... just take a moment to remember all those men, and women, who fought so hard for the country and the freedom they believed in.